Real life dating and online dating updating zone files
Just as adding more currency into an economy devalues all the other currency while increasing prices, adding more messages to the dating economy devalues other messages and inflates the self-perceived value of the girls. They begin to think they are more attractive than they really are and begin responding to messages more selectively, thus continuing the cycle.Very attractive women do not benefit directly from online dating. In the end, guys are contacting women they’d never speak with in real life (other than at a.m.).
I mean, if you’re going to date for 2 years before you get married, what difference does it make if you met at a party or on Ok Cupid?
On the other hand, I see a flaw in what the study seems to suggest, which is that there’s a problem with the fact that people who date online tend to break up quicker. If you never meet someone in real life, and you have a chance encounter that leads to love, you are more likely to stay in a bad or dead-end relationship because of your perception of scarcity.
Obviously, this is impossible to do through the tubes of the Internet (for now).
Even basic eye contact is not possible through a computer. They crave the attention of men, even those they’d label the C word. What happens next to the men on these sites is a lowering of standards. These women have their self-worth filled as well as their inboxes.
The best profiles show humour and cockiness; true confidence is elusive.