leo and scorpio dating - Dating a very christian guy
Within the covenant community of faith, there should be those around a person that can speak of their reputation and whether they are serious about growing in the Lord and putting sin to death in their life. Is there seriousness in this person to grow in their relationship and understanding with the Lord?Because what I have tragically found is that Christian singles hit an area of desperation, particularly young women, and they will go: “Yeah, he is a Christian, he comes to church.” And really what they’re saying is this guy comes to church a couple of times a month, but outside of attending a service, he doesn’t have a real seriousness about growing in his understanding of the Lord, growing in his understanding of the Bible, being a prayerful person, no vivication or mortification that can be spotted, and no one who really knows them enough to speak to the growth in their character.
But we need to take a step back and stop reviewing that fantasy every time we meet a new guy.
I know this is counterintuitive, but sometimes the harder you look for your future spouse, the more you creep out every guy at your Bible study. And two, two people who actually like and respect each other.
Find out if you guys get along, if you like the way he laughs, if he lets you have all the ginger when you’re sharing sushi, if he seems like a hard worker, if he keeps his word. Don’t be afraid to be proven wrong about some of the things on your list — my original list included “must not be Caucasian” and I married a freckly red head so.
podcast and answered ten questions on singleness and dating.
There are tons of Christian men out there that I would have been miserable marrying. At the same time, when you’re constantly trying to put every man you meet through your “husband filter,” it destroys your chances of figuring out if you actually like that person.